Thursday, July 31, 2008

Women think of shopping as much as men think about sex

Three out of four young women think about shopping nearly as often as men think about sex, it is claimed.
Thoughts of buying that new dress or a much sought-after pair of shoes pop into their heads every 60 seconds, according to a survey by the self- styled 'on-line fashion bible' cosmopolitan.co.uk.
Assuming eight hours of sleep a night, that means shopping trips consume their thoughts an astonishing 960 times a day and 6,720 times a week.
Other studies have previously claimed to uphold the commonly-held belief that young men have only one thing on their minds - sex.
They are said to think about it every 52 seconds, while the subject crosses some women's minds only once a day.
On average, those surveyed spent at least 30 per cent of their annual income on clothes.
Perhaps most worryingly for men, half of those surveyed said they preferred shopping to spending time with their partner, and nearly as many confessed to keeping their shopping escapades secret from their partner to hide their level of spending.
Discussing the cosmopolitan survey, psychologist Dr Jane Prince, of the University of Glamorgan, said: 'People think about things which bring them pleasurable feelings. The pleasure is usually in the anticipating and planning.
'But so many women displaying this level of preoccupation, thinking about something once a minute, would indicate widespread addictive behaviour with regard to shopping which really does not seem to be evidenced in any academic literature I have ever seen.'

JAMMU & KASHMIR REVIEW

FRIENDS , NOTE SOME SHAMEFUL DISCRIMINATION AGAINST JAMMU REGION BY KASHMIR RULERS....FOLLOWING ARE SOME OF SHAMEFUL ACTS:
KASHMIR JAMMU
AREA 15948 SQ.KMS 26293 SQ.KMS
GOVT. INCOME FROM 20% 80%
ASSEMBLY SEATS 46 37
CABINET MINISTERS 14 5
UNEMPLOYMENT 30% 70%

ARUN KUMAR CEO SHRI AMARNATH SHRINE BOARD WHEN MADE A PRESS CONFERENCE JUSTYFYING SHRINE BOARD'S STAND.GOVERENMENT ATTACHED HIM WITH EXCUSE THAT IAS OFFICER CANNOT GIVE SUCH PRESS CONFERENCE. BUT
WHEN NOW DIVISIONAL COMMISSIONER & IG JAMMU GAVE PRESS CONFERENCE JUSTYFYING HARSH CRUELTY WITH BODY OF MARTYR KULDEEP KUMAR DOGRA , THEY ARE NOT SACKED...
WHY ???????? THEY ARE NOT IAS OFFICERS ......!!!!!! YEH ANDHA KANOON HAI ..

IN 2003 ONE MILLITANT KILLED FOUR AIR FORCE OFFICERS IN A BRUTAL ATTACK.GOVT. ARRESTED HIM ON SPOT.RECENTLY HE GOT ILL AND WAS SENT IN SPECIAL JET FOR TREATMENT.MUFTI SAYEED THEN CHIEF MINISTER GAVE HIS FAMILY 5 LAKHS UNDER SOME SCHEME.....SO IF ALL OF U WANT HEALTHY LIVING & GOOD HEALTH & FAME..JOIN TERRORISM..TATS WAT THE RULERS IN JAMMU & KASHMIR ARE GIVING SIGNALS.......

REALLY ITS SAD TO SEE ALL THIS IN 21ST CENTURY WHERE MEN HAS NO TIME FOR ALL THIS WASTE THINGS BUT THESE POLITICIANS CAN DO ANYTHING TO BE IN CHAIR.....

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

Sex is everything Not only is sex important – it is the most important

The lack of sex didn’t cause the fights. The fights happened because the sex wasn’t good enough.

Even if everything is going well, all is running smoothly, and everyone aggress on how the kids should be raised, if the sex isn’t working, an insurmountable lack of satisfaction will lead to cheating and the end of the relationship. There are always problems, but what decides the fate of the relationship is how things are in bed. Relationships may not be all about sex, but they definitely can’t exist without it. The body has the last word on the compatibility level and the quality of communication. If the sex is working, no matter what went on during the day, everything passes, becomes smaller, sillier and solvable. People always say that sex isn’t everything, and that it passes anyway, and that there are more important things, like trust, communication, and love. But I’m saying, what’s trust if not the knowledge that you can be exposed, unconscious, completely wanton to his mercy, and know, theoretically, that if you were to go into a clinical coma, nothing bad would happen to you? What’s communication if not his knowledge of what you want every second of the day? And if those two things put together aren’t love, then I don’t know what is!


Saree Below Navel

Saree below sexy navel: Not some godforsaken ugly navel, mind you, a sexy one. Better be specific than sorry for searching for navel pics and stumbling upon mediocre navels.

Saree below navel in bra: “Transferred epithet”, I believe, is what this figure of speech is called as I could hardly imagine a navel adorned in a lacy bra. We must assume that the said bra is worn by the owner of the said navel. But on the other hand, who are we to judge one’s preference of navels and their accoutrements.

Saree below naval: I take comfort in believing that I live in a world of typos rather than a world full of people with some kinky fantasies involving armed forces and Indian garments.

SHARON STONE in saree below navel: It might seem absurd that one would look for her pictures with saree below navel when one could get pictures of her with skirt below ankles. But let’s not underestimate the power of fetish.

The launch of the open source Firefox 3 web browser has set the new Guinness World Record for the largest number of software downloads in 24 hours. Mozilla's mirrors served 8,002,530 complete, individual downloads during the download day event following the official RELEASE OF FIREFOX 3 last month.

The download day grassroots marketing campaign was orchestrated by Mozilla's global marketing team. When the idea was first ANNOUNCEDto the public in May, Mozilla encouraged enthusiasts to pledge in advance. Over 1.7 million users from all over the world visited the SpreadFirefox web site to affirm their support prior to the day of the launch, and many Firefox enthusiasts planned special parties and download-fests for the day of the release.

No person can complete you

It is time to remind myself about something I told my friend some months ago. Sometimes we make ourselves believe that we need more to feel complete or to feel happy. People, objects, emotions- it could be anything. But that’s not so. The reality of my life or anyone’s is that what ever you need, life has already given it to you. If you feel something is not there or cannot sense something, probably you have no need for it. Really, there is nothing lacking in you for someone to come and complete. Just consider this, if you truly don’t have love , then how can you even offer it to others? If you crave love, does it mean you are empty of love? Do you expect someone to come fill your heart with love, so that you can give that same love in return? No, you love because you already have that emotion in you. And so when someone doesn’t reciprocate your love with love, let it not lead you to a sense of incompleteness or despair. Instead know that before wanting someone’s attention, you need to first love yourself and be at peace with yourself. Only when there is love in your life, a completeness with yourself, can you understand and see love. Else when it comes you won’t even be able to recognize it.

‘World’s oldest blogger’ dies at 108

An Australian woman often described as the world’s oldest blogger has died at the age of 108 after posting a final message about her ailing health but how she sang “a happy song, as I do every day.”

Not that I want to live to be 108, but I can quite picture myself in my old age, still blogging, actually...

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Sunday, July 27, 2008

Skin treatments over the counter

Are you wanting to treat wrinkles at home instead of going to a “spa” or dermatologist? Many products that are “over-the-counter” can be purchased and used to treat wrinkles in the comfort of your own home. Dermatologists recommended that products contain vitamins C & E as well as have anti-oxidants in them. Products that also contain Alpha Hydroxyl Acids (AHA) help to remove the dead layers of skin to produce a younger appearance in the skin. Retinol and Alpha Hydroxyl Acids (AHA) are found in many night creams for the face. Retinol is a form of Vitamin A, and can be used to reduce acne as well as increasing the cell turnover rate of your skin. The faster your cells regenerate... the more youthful you will appear. Your fine lines and wrinkles on your face will be diminished. Use a natural skin lightener for those dark under-eye circles. Kojic Acid is also a good ingredient, because it’s a natural lightener and works wonders on dark under-eye circles. You have many options for reducing fine lines and wrinkles. You don’t have to spend a fortune, either!

Trouble in paradise?

Marriage counsellors often advise troubled couples with many issues. Here are a few oft-encountered ones.

Financial Issues:
Money is among the top reasons couples argue. Different salaries, spending habits, and attitudes about money make it a controversial topic. Often one person is a saver and the other is a free spender. This can lead to a great deal of stress in any marriage when the couple is already fairly tight on finances, or when one spouse is far more frugal than the other.

Infidelity:
Infidelity happens when feelings of depression, stress, or just being overwhelmed with the pressures of life can cause some people to neglect their physical appearance and hygiene. Another reason for looking outside of marriage is when couples become demanding of one another. A wife or husband may not realise that nagging and complaining is demanding. It puts a lot of pressure on a spouse to be a certain way for the other. And what if they do not, or cannot perform in the way you think they should. They tend to look for some peace outside their marriage and this may turn into infidelity.

Recipe for happy marriage:
Communication is the key ingredient to any successful marriage. That means talking through situations rather than bottling up or accusing each other.Address the issue calmly and resolve your arguments with logic and reason.
Empathy is important in marriage. Empathy isn’t the same as sympathy. It means being able to put yourself in another’s position, to feel what they feel and see what they see, And it means you do all that even though you may disagree with a partner’s perception, opinions, or feelings.

Settle down fights and bitterness:
‘I am sorry’ – It is that magic word which will surely work wonders. Never hesitate to say sorry if you are wrong and see the difference that it makes. It is advisable not to bring the past as it will only exacerbate the sourness. Be calm and above all forget and forgive.There will be lots of times when you and your spouse won’t have the same opinion at all in some aspects. Don’t make your point sound like a criticism to your partner. It doesn’t matter who is in the wrong or right. Always bear in mind that an argument doesn’t need a winner or a loser.

Hackers all the way control the internet traffic

Internet security researchers on Thursday warned that hackers have caught on to a "critical" flaw that lets them control traffic on the Internet. An elite squad of computer industry engineers that laboured in secret to solve the problem released a software "patch" two weeks ago and sought to keep details of the vulnerability hidden at least a month to give people time to protect computers from attacks.

"We are in a lot of trouble," said IOActive security specialist Dan Kaminsky, who stumbled upon the Domain Name System (DNS) vulnerability about six months ago and reached out to industry giants to collaborate on a solution. DNS is used by every computer that links to the Internet and works similar to a telephone system routing calls to proper numbers, in this case the online numerical addresses of websites.

The vulnerability allows "cache poisoning" attacks that tinker with data stored in computer memory caches that relay Internet traffic to its destination.The threat is greatest for business computers handling online traffic or hosting websites, according to security researchers. The flaw is a boon for "phishing" cons that involve leading people to imitation web pages of businesses such as bank or credit card companies to trick them into disclosing account numbers, passwords and other information. US Computer Emergency Readiness Team (CERT), a joint government-private sector security partnership, is among the chorus urging people to quickly protect computers linked to the Internet